I'm on my second "listen" of the audiobook "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck" and I have learned so much about myself! Much of the book is devoted to values and the metrics by which we measure our progress. In my 37-years of life, I have chosen some good values and some shitty ones and perhaps you have too. Some of the good values I've chosen I have destroyed by applying shitty metrics and therefore the value becomes unobtainable or devoid of meaning. I'm going to dissect a few of my good values for you and illustrate how I am planning to change the metric. You can do this too.
I could keep going, but I think you get it! WE get to choose our values, and WE get to determine the metric we use to define those values. Let's choose wisely and we can live happy, fulfilling lives.